Well, I’m done. I’m done even trying. No more honest effort…no more giving a chance. I’m finished. He’s moving back up north – he says temporarily. Albeit its for 6 months — its a move AWAY from me nonetheless. Its not even necessary. He just feels he needs to get away from south Florida. I asked what he might accomplish by leaving? And he replied, “i don’t know — get away from the area….the people.” My reply, “I see”. Of course he promised to return after “getting away”. He promised to come and visit me frequently. He made ME promise to come visit him up north. What for???!! Just to extend what inevitablely seems to be happening? And that is — its just not working out and it is time for one of us to just admit to it.